How to greet people in Spain

We take it for granted- the ways in which we say hello to new and known people. Every country has its custom and getting it wrong can be both awkward and embarrassing. So, whether you’re new to Spain or still finding it confusing – here is our guide to getting it right.

• Spanish greeting protocol is known for its ‘besos’ (kisses)
• Without an ‘evening’ in Spain wishing someone ‘buenas’ can be a safe option
• Don’t forget for someone new ‘encantada’ or ‘encantado’ can be appreciated

Spanish people are well known for being more tactile and touchy feely than those from Northern European countries. A stiff handshake and nod of the head does have its place but much more likely is the two ‘besos’ or kisses even when it is someone you haven’t met before.

It doesn’t have to be full contact. A bit of an ‘air’ kiss or light brush of a cheek is fine and, in fact, is more appropriate in many cases. There is also a protocol for which side is first. This is important to avoid embarrassing nose contact! You start on the left side and then move to the right cheek.

‘Besos’ are usually exchanged between women or a man and a woman. More common between men is the more traditional handshake but completed with a little more ‘oomph’ than in the North of Europe. It might also be accompanied by a friendly ‘slap’ on the back. If you’re not sure though, err on the side of safety and stick to the handshake.

In the case of not having seen someone close for a long time then something even warmer might be in order. ‘Abrazos’ means ‘hugs’ and can be appropriate in particular cases but not when you are first meeting someone.

Alternatively, ‘encantada’ (if you are a woman) or ‘encantado’ (if you are a man) means I’m delighted – and is a traditional formal way of acknowledging a new acquaintance.

What to say

Walk into a room and usually Spanish people greet everyone there. A habit that is both inclusive and that other countries could learn from. But what do you say?

Buenos días (good morning) or buenas tardes (good afternoon) are often used and buenos días can stray comfortably past the 12.00 watershed. The word ‘evening’ does not really exist in Spanish and buenas tardes can be used at least until it’s dark. Buenas noches is more often used to say goodnight as you are leaving rather than as a greeting.  

Alternatively, if all this feels a bit confusing you can just say ‘buenas’ which covers you on all counts – or even just hola. When it comes to passing someone in the street or a very brief encounter it is perfectly acceptable to say adiós or hasta luego (goodbye or see you later) rather than hello.

Seems like there are lots of rules to follow? Not really and, in the end, if you make a mistake it’s not going to be a criminal offence but rather just a ‘guiri’ (foreigner) getting it wrong. As always, what’s most important is that you make the effort and try.